Joyful Ruins

Discovering joy in the hard places


Dear Younger me, Romance is…..

Dear Younger me,

I used to think romance was star gazing, hand holding, late night talks, and being called beautiful. All those things are romantic, but empty without the true romance.

Romance is showing interest in who a person is and what they care about.

Romance is protecting each other’s purity and reputation at all cost.

Romance is being intentional in your action and words.

Romance is taking things slow, taking your time, and patiently getting to know one another.

Romance is seeking God’s guidance above all else and treating each other as children of God.



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An obsessive journaler who loves meeting others along their journey and giving them a hand to hold through pieces of writing. I write about the heartbreaks of life and the joys, the ups and downs, and I often learn my greatest lessons and miracles from nature.

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