Joyful Ruins

Discovering joy in the hard places


Nurture Versus Nature

It’s truly been

my world

that’s made me sick

I’ve always been told

I was the problem

My thinking wrong

my feelings too much

But now that I’ve found safety

and I am more myself

than I have ever been

I know

that it wasn’t me that was wrong

but the world I lived in

The people who harmed me

The religion that taught me

The lack of love that starved me

And now that I know it wasn’t me

I can stop rearranging myself

cutting parts off of me

and let go of you all instead

Say goodbye

and never look back



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About Me

An obsessive journaler who loves meeting others along their journey and giving them a hand to hold through pieces of writing. I write about the heartbreaks of life and the joys, the ups and downs, and I often learn my greatest lessons and miracles from nature.

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