dating
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Real or not Real?
Was it real? Or did we make it up? Each needing someone to tell us we were worthy of love The fantasy of it does not make it wrong It’s still a beautiful love but not the real love either of us needs in the long run Continue reading
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Knowing you
Looking back now I wonder if I truly saw you for ALL you were the good and the bad Because instead everything you were effected me Each word and action lensed selfishly There was no you Just me and all my needs all my insecurities To know you at all I had to let go Continue reading
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Humanity or Romance
Beautiful or kind sometimes I feel like I have to choose Sexy or sensitive rarely are they synonymous at least to others and in the world of dating you’re beautiful as long as you try as long as you’re quiet and listen As long as you text first as long as you inconvenience yourself to Continue reading
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Being 30: Single and Dating
It’s been far too long since I have checked in with myself about my singleness. For much of my teens and early 20s, I scrambled to change my relationship status. I longed for a partner to help me with the big life changes, to affirm me, to romance me, and to help me take brave Continue reading
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Unexpected One
Unexpected Out of fullness an act of trust I went along and God showed up Each moment with you is such a surprise my assumptions get knocked down judgements flipped on their sides no other can compare because it’s obvious you care I’ve wanted someone to value my heart but have found few who ask Continue reading
About Me
An obsessive journaler who loves meeting others along their journey and giving them a hand to hold through pieces of writing. I write about the heartbreaks of life and the joys, the ups and downs, and I often learn my greatest lessons and miracles from nature.
Joyful Ruins 